Oh dear....wrestling with high blood pressure and swollen ankles...enough distress to cancel a planned trip to San Antonio to look at a new retirement community there. It won't be ready until August but I think it is going to be perfect! Great floor plans and a WASHER and DRYER in a little utility room...Hallelujah, would that ever be nice! Doc was encouraging me to go on but I'm glad I didn't! The additional BP med knocked me for a loop! I was in no shape to drive for sure. Heart rate crazy and all I wanted to do was sleep. No energy and I have to be well soon. Off the new med for now and much improved with very skinny ankles and 5# lighter. You think stress might be doing a number here? DUH!
I have a ticket to fly to Denver to visit my niece on next Wednesday with my SIL (our annual Mother's Day treat) so home we stayed this weekend. I was going to leave hubby with our son's family in San Antonio while I was gone but our doc advised against it as it would be too much for hubby and disorienting. But plans are in place for hubby to stay here with a combination of caregivers and family. Our granddaughter is going to spend two nights and daughter will come in one day. I've labeled the remote for the TV as it is confusing for He=Who and have glued a note with his favorite stations on it on the table under the TV. Instructions to caregivers say leave the TV on MSNBC when they leave. He doesn't wander (thank goodness) so he will be fine..Whew! By damn I am going to be on that plane!!!
Last week He-Who finished his shower and came into the living room all dressed and ready to go to lunch. The weather has been so warm here so he came in wearing the bottoms to his short pajamas. Cute, huh, but he was happy to change. A few days ago he came into the living room after eating his breakfast and greeted me with a warm Happy Birthday kiss...my birthday was weeks ago but hey, I thanked him and have learned to treasure these moments of sweetness. He was quite proud of himself for remembering that I had a birthday and I am, too.